This is a 18+ server!
Welcome to Queer Cafe!
This is a place to be yourself, make friends, get involved in the rooms and have some cyber company!
The thing is, a lot of other servers have rules and limits on conversation topics and language. What's offensive to you, might be a joke to someone else. That's why I made this server. So people can socialise freely and without having to censor themselves. There are obvious exceptions, naturally. Most reasonable people would not indulge blatant racist attacks on someone for example. But that's the point and the distinction we make here. To attack someone is a different intent than to discuss issues broadly. Now, why there are general rules, these shouldn't feel too restrictive and while we do want to be quite liberal in our attitudes towards language and humour, bullying of any kind will not be tolerated. The world is cruel enough, we want this place to be a refuge from that.